Each of us reaches a point in life where we must decide what is really important and live from our highest values. We must put aside lesser pursuits in favor of what truly satisfies our soul. When all is said and done, we will remember our moments of love and kindness, and all else will fall away. Do not be distracted from your soul’s true purpose. Do what is meaningful to you, and trust that all else will be taken care of.

Some of the photos I’ve taken since I’ve been here in Cali - with some old and new friends, family surprises and new places!

M.I.A. - sorry!

So I’ve been MIA here in the blog world since I got to Cali about 3 months ago.  There have been a few ups and downs - I’ve been moving all over the place, living in guest rooms, air mattreses and pull out couches.  But I think things are finally starting to settle down…

Since the last time I posted I moved from San Diego up to Laguna Beach and stayed with my Aunt and Uncle for about 3 weeks.  The job market was better for me in Orange County, CA so it seemed to be the right place for me to go.  I ended up landing a job at an IT Consulting company in Newport Beach.  Then my sister and her husband moved out here so I quickly (and I mean very quick) moved into their apartment (that’s right - before they even moved in) and started living off of their pull out couch.  Thank god for family, right!  I seriously don’t know where I would be without any of them.

So to make a long story short - I made a lot of trips around Southern California, made some new friends, reconnected with some old ones, some family made some surprise visits, and I landed a place to live - not with family ;). 

This weekend not only am I celebrating my favorite sister’s birthday but I will be moving into a townhouse in Newport Beach - 5 mins to the beach and 10 mins to work.  I’m feeling better about California every day now.

I do admit that I had a tough time these last three months.  I missed NYC and my family/friends, I wondered if I was out of my mind for making this bold move & I definitely contemplated packing up all my bags and moving back.  But I came out here for a reason - I don’t have anything to prove to anyone else, just myself.  I know I’m strong enough to make this work - at least for a little while.  I came out here for a change, to start over and to meet new people.  This is just the beginning…